tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8732370878488984587.post8760795954185289853..comments2018-05-03T09:37:05.889-05:00Comments on A Wish In the Woods: Brighid in AutumnLunahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01272330462479906362noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8732370878488984587.post-82080516853061048022011-09-11T00:29:41.705-05:002011-09-11T00:29:41.705-05:00It is so terrible when kids have to bear a parent&...It is so terrible when kids have to bear a parent's acrimony. Why can't grown-up direct their anger at the person they are angry with and not do it in front of the child..? Don't they realize what it does to a kid..? Don't they care..? <br /><br />I have seen this happening once too often. People ask me if I ever speak against my ex to my kids and are surprised when I say I don't. Why should I screw up the mind of my own child merely so I can prove what a non-person their father was..? They'll find out eventually anyhow. As my eldest one has found out in the past one year when she's had to live with him in Bombay. Now she asks me, 'how did you tolerate him for 12 years?'<br /><br />I think there ought to be a one year intensive training for all would be parents. Perhaps then we'll be able to raise some confident children who don't have a whole load of baggage sitting on their shoulders all their lives. Sigh.<br /><br />If only....<br /><br />Hugs...<br />DagnyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com